It's weird to think about how I'm in a place where I feel comfortable addressing this properly. Wasn't it yesterday I was stuffing dining hall cheese curds in my body every night, when "working out" was like talking in a foreign language, and skipping pointless classes to play Super Smash Bros with my new boyfriend who I was only semi-interested in was actually a thing I did with my life?
"I am having such a hard time balancing school work, social life, living healthy, and getting enough God-time."
Dear Lovely Friend,
This is a letter to you. You're not alone.
There's that oh-so-overused annoying infographic that looks like this:
I mean, fine. I guess it makes sense. Woe is the college student. We're too busy to do everything. Whine whine cheese whine. But I want to think that instead of whining about it, more people should just plain take initiative in their lives to work on fixing that bits and pieces that are more difficult or lacking.
Let me address the topics you mentioned and how I deal(t) with them:
1) School Work
Remember that you are in school to learn. You are paying so much money. Get everything you want to get out of it. The resources you have are crazy convenient Use. Them. Now, obviously, if you would have told that to me while I was sitting in the back of the 200 person Geography lecture hall texting the boy I swore was my soulmate, I would have retorted a wittism about how my professor had her master's degree in dirt. True story. I didn't care about that class. I did minimal work and skidded by as apathetically as possible.
And it's okay to have classes like that. If you know you can do well enough in a class without caring, this is great. You know why? Because if leaves more time and brain space to pursue the crap out of the subjects you care about.
It's okay to not do as well in subjects you feel aren't worth your time. You don't need to know everything. It's true.
With that being said, self-discipline. Miss a night out. It's okay. Trust me, everyone understands and there will be more.
2)
Social Life
There was a point in my first two years where I felt like I was losing friends back home more rapidly than I losing hair in the shower. I had a lot of best friends. It took me a really long time to readjust and become comfortable with accepting the fact that all of my friendships were shifting. But guess what?
The good ones will always be there for you. It's honestly honestly the truth.
And that goes for friends back home and friends at college (and on the internet, and in foreign countries...)
And if it comes down to it, force yourself to plan around social nights. Like, if you know you're getting boneless wings at BDUBS on Thursday night, force yourself to get more stuff done the night before.
Also, what helped insanely much and my best friend and I still think of fondly, were comparing schedules and planning on campus lunches with our friends. Middle of the day friend time is a weirdly therapeutic.
Also, for the record, let me tell you all one thing. Ahem. YOU DO NOT NEED A BOY TO TEXT EVERY DAY. IT DOESN'T SUCK AS MUCH AS YOU THINK IT WILL.
Oh, I'm sorry. was this a letter to past me or you? ;]
3)
Living Healthy
Buy. A smaller. Meal Plan. This forces you to not only think in terms of feeding yourself, but it also is a fantastic way to make sure you're aware of portion control and what goes in your food. Fit as much real food in your frig as possible. Eat. Real. Food.
I get not going to the gym. Boy, do I get it. (I mean, it's an insanely long process, amirite?!) But you can, believe it or not, walk up the stairs to your forth floor class.
Sign up for 5k races. This is kind of like using the Law instead of the Gospel. The law shows you your sin, right? In the same way, it will be quite evident if you don't ever work out when you're huffing your way through a 3 mile jog. Hahaha. What did I just do with that comparison.
Anyway, 5k races are usually really really fun.
4) God-Time
From what I understand, you are in a pretty awesome environment of supportive people in this department. Just like school work, this is just something you need to make time for. Join a Bible study. Yes, it's weird the first few weeks. Yes, you might have to scavenger your way through 2 or 3 Christian groups before you find one you're comfortable with, but doooo it. Do it. Do it.
Bring it up in conversation with friends. It's way more awesome than talking about how much boys suck.
Also, read that Bible app on your phone during Geography. For goodness sake, your professor has her masters in DIRT.
When you make TIME for God, he will bless you from it. You will never regret making time for Him, I promise.
What you're insterested in matters the most, your friends will always love you, eat real food, and make time for God.
Love,
An Ever Learning College Girl